In my previous post was talking about understanding teenagers, this time I will share about the problems experienced by adolescents. Get to the main discussion
Adolescence is often marked by physical and psychological changes, this change raises particular problems for adolescents as well as the surrounding environment. Usually teenagers will ask questions about the changes that happened to him so that they can realize possisi within the family or community but also many teenagers who did not care changes that happen to them so often lead to various problems .. among the problems that arise in adolescence, namely:
1. The problems caused by physical changes and motor
Physical growth in adolescence is very fast. Physical development is not proportional to cause discontent and lack of confidence. Reproductive maturity in adolescence requires effort gratification and if not guided by the norms can lead to sexually deviant behavior.
2. Problems associated with cognitive and language development.
In early adolescence is marked by rapid development of intellectual abilities. But when, the teenager did not get a chance development of intellectual abilities, particularly through education at school, then perhaps its intellectual potential will not develop optimally. Likewise adolescence, particularly early adolescents is the best time to get to know and explore a foreign language. However, given the limitations of opportunities and facilities and pre facilities, causing the teenager's difficulty in mastering a foreign language. Inevitably, in this current era of globalization, the mastery of foreign languages is essential to the success of one's life and career. But with the obstacles in the development of incompetence in foreign languages must be some measure of influence on life and career success. Impaired cognitive and language development can also result in emotional aspects, social and behavioral aspects and other personalities.
3. Problems associated with the development of social behavior, morality and religious.
Adolescence also referred to as the social hunger (thirst social), which is characterized by the desire to get along and be accepted within the peer group (peer group). Rejection of the peer group can lead to frustration and makes him as isolated and feel inferior. But on the contrary, if teenagers can be accepted by peers and even become an idol of course she will feel proud and have the honor in itself. Social behavior of adolescent problems not only occur with peer groups, but also can occur with parents and other adults, including teachers at the school. This is due in adolescence, particularly early adolescents will be characterized by an ambivalent desire, on the one hand the desire to remove the dependency and can determine his own choice, but on the other hand he still needs a parent, especially economically. In line with the growth of reproductive organs, social relations that developed in adolescence is marked also by the desire to establish a special relationship with other species and if not guided action can lead to deviant behavior in social and sexual behavior. In adolescence is also marked by a desire to experiment and test the reliability of the existing norms, if not guided, might have developed into a conflict of values in themselves and with their environment.
4. Problems associated with the development of personality, and emotional.
Adolescence is also the time to discover the identity of self (self identity). Search for the identity of any business, mostly done by showing the behavior of trial and error, imitation behavior or identification. When the teenager failed to find his identity, he will experience an identity crisis or identity confusion, so perhaps it will form a personality system that not describe the actual state of self. The reactions and emotional expression that is still unstable and not yet under control in adolescence can have an impact on our personal and social. He became often feel depressed and moping or she actually becomes the person to behave aggressively. Quarrels and fights often occur because of emotional instability.
Other than those described above, of course, still many other problems of adolescence. The emergence of adolescent problems are influenced by various factors, both internal and external. For teenagers to avoid the various difficulties and problems would need the wisdom of all parties. Efforts to facilitate the development of adolescents will be very important. In this case, the role of parents, schools participating in the development of adolescent growth
1. The problems caused by physical changes and motor
Physical growth in adolescence is very fast. Physical development is not proportional to cause discontent and lack of confidence. Reproductive maturity in adolescence requires effort gratification and if not guided by the norms can lead to sexually deviant behavior.
2. Problems associated with cognitive and language development.
In early adolescence is marked by rapid development of intellectual abilities. But when, the teenager did not get a chance development of intellectual abilities, particularly through education at school, then perhaps its intellectual potential will not develop optimally. Likewise adolescence, particularly early adolescents is the best time to get to know and explore a foreign language. However, given the limitations of opportunities and facilities and pre facilities, causing the teenager's difficulty in mastering a foreign language. Inevitably, in this current era of globalization, the mastery of foreign languages is essential to the success of one's life and career. But with the obstacles in the development of incompetence in foreign languages must be some measure of influence on life and career success. Impaired cognitive and language development can also result in emotional aspects, social and behavioral aspects and other personalities.
3. Problems associated with the development of social behavior, morality and religious.
Adolescence also referred to as the social hunger (thirst social), which is characterized by the desire to get along and be accepted within the peer group (peer group). Rejection of the peer group can lead to frustration and makes him as isolated and feel inferior. But on the contrary, if teenagers can be accepted by peers and even become an idol of course she will feel proud and have the honor in itself. Social behavior of adolescent problems not only occur with peer groups, but also can occur with parents and other adults, including teachers at the school. This is due in adolescence, particularly early adolescents will be characterized by an ambivalent desire, on the one hand the desire to remove the dependency and can determine his own choice, but on the other hand he still needs a parent, especially economically. In line with the growth of reproductive organs, social relations that developed in adolescence is marked also by the desire to establish a special relationship with other species and if not guided action can lead to deviant behavior in social and sexual behavior. In adolescence is also marked by a desire to experiment and test the reliability of the existing norms, if not guided, might have developed into a conflict of values in themselves and with their environment.
4. Problems associated with the development of personality, and emotional.
Adolescence is also the time to discover the identity of self (self identity). Search for the identity of any business, mostly done by showing the behavior of trial and error, imitation behavior or identification. When the teenager failed to find his identity, he will experience an identity crisis or identity confusion, so perhaps it will form a personality system that not describe the actual state of self. The reactions and emotional expression that is still unstable and not yet under control in adolescence can have an impact on our personal and social. He became often feel depressed and moping or she actually becomes the person to behave aggressively. Quarrels and fights often occur because of emotional instability.
Other than those described above, of course, still many other problems of adolescence. The emergence of adolescent problems are influenced by various factors, both internal and external. For teenagers to avoid the various difficulties and problems would need the wisdom of all parties. Efforts to facilitate the development of adolescents will be very important. In this case, the role of parents, schools participating in the development of adolescent growth
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