0 Jealousy

Jealousy, a simple word but keep a very deep meaning behind it. There are many reasons why we feel jealous, and despite normal for people to feel something, jealousy tend to be out of control if we fail to conquer it.

Well, in order to conquer and control it, you need to know is where the jealousy is coming from.

When you're feeling jealous, you know is just that you're feeling, right? That's when you should stop! It may be difficult to remember every moment, but you should be able to stop for a moment when you feel jealous and ask yourself why.

Does it have anything to do with trust you, or because of your boyfriend's own behavior that causes you to feel that way? Speaking of confidence, jealousy is an effective way to reduce it. So whatever the reasons behind it, is very important for you to conquer jealousy, otherwise it could damage trust yourself.

Once you know than your jealousy comes, and things you must do is find out why it makes you jealous. For example, if you know that is because it makes you jealous to see your boyfriend talking familiarly with the opposite sex, so you have to discover why it makes you jealous.

Have you ever had a similar experience with your old boyfriend first, or you're just afraid of being betrayed? If yes, why would you be afraid? Do yourself poorer confidence is lower than what you think? As you can see, a lot of questions arise that must be asked and answered so that you can control the flavor cemburumu.

Once you realize where kecemburuanmu menyebabkankan coming from and what, now you can concentrate to control it and hopefully can get rid of it. If your boyfriend's behavior related reasons, then the best step is to get him to talk seriously. Do not feel scared or stupid when you're doing it. You after all have a right to express your feelings, and your boyfriend had a right to know what makes you jealous. If he is saying to you, he will perform a variety of ways to stop feeling that way.

Ease and get rid of jealousy will take time. All it also depends on the circumstances and reasons behind it. If you are jealous because your boyfriend is the one bit flirtatious, and he changed his attitude, then maybe think cemburumu will soon subside. But, if you think cemburumu come from other areas such as the competitive nature with a girl / another guy, then it will be more difficult. One way to deal with this kind of jealousy is to increase its own "quality" of yourself.

Do things that can encourage a sense of trust you, for example by exercising so much slimmer. But remember, do not do these things to excess to harm yourself, either cost, effort or thought. You should feel good while doing it.

Learning how to handle jealousy will have a big impact on the situation further. Kombinasikanlah sense cemburumu with other, more rational emotion, so I can still control it. But if you combine it with a stressful emotions such as anger, you can actually make a variety of actions or decisions that you'll regret later.

So, to conquer jealousy you just have to remember the following steps:
1. Discover the taste cemburumu
2. Ask yourself where they come from
3. Ask again why does it make you jealous
4. Talk with your boyfriend
5. Make some changes so that you are more confident
6. Combine jealousy with a more rational emotion
7. Exercise!

As long as you follow it, you'll be able to control taste cemburumu and prevent that it is controlling you. The last step is also very penting.Latihan! If you continue to practice it many times, controlling jealousy will become increasingly easy.

Controlling your emotions like that will make you as a leader and not be a pengikuti your emotions. That could menghindarkanmu from things such unwanted break from your boyfriend, low self-esteem, depression, jealousy or even crazy. Thus, you can focus yourself on other things in life are far more useful, like learning to get good grades in school, and so on. And of course, you also will be trained to think in an open and more able to seek a solution in other problems in your relationship with the him.

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0 Youth Problems

In my previous post was talking about understanding teenagers, this time I will share about the problems experienced by adolescents. Get to the main discussion

Adolescence is often marked by physical and psychological changes, this change raises particular problems for adolescents as well as the surrounding environment. Usually teenagers will ask questions about the changes that happened to him so that they can realize possisi within the family or community but also many teenagers who did not care changes that happen to them so often lead to various problems .. among the problems that arise in adolescence, namely:

1. The problems caused by physical changes and motor
Physical growth in adolescence is very fast. Physical development is not proportional to cause discontent and lack of confidence. Reproductive maturity in adolescence requires effort gratification and if not guided by the norms can lead to sexually deviant behavior.

2. Problems associated with cognitive and language development.
In early adolescence is marked by rapid development of intellectual abilities. But when, the teenager did not get a chance development of intellectual abilities, particularly through education at school, then perhaps its intellectual potential will not develop optimally. Likewise adolescence, particularly early adolescents is the best time to get to know and explore a foreign language. However, given the limitations of opportunities and facilities and pre facilities, causing the teenager's difficulty in mastering a foreign language. Inevitably, in this current era of globalization, the mastery of foreign languages is essential to the success of one's life and career. But with the obstacles in the development of incompetence in foreign languages must be some measure of influence on life and career success. Impaired cognitive and language development can also result in emotional aspects, social and behavioral aspects and other personalities.

3. Problems associated with the development of social behavior, morality and religious.
Adolescence also referred to as the social hunger (thirst social), which is characterized by the desire to get along and be accepted within the peer group (peer group). Rejection of the peer group can lead to frustration and makes him as isolated and feel inferior. But on the contrary, if teenagers can be accepted by peers and even become an idol of course she will feel proud and have the honor in itself. Social behavior of adolescent problems not only occur with peer groups, but also can occur with parents and other adults, including teachers at the school. This is due in adolescence, particularly early adolescents will be characterized by an ambivalent desire, on the one hand the desire to remove the dependency and can determine his own choice, but on the other hand he still needs a parent, especially economically. In line with the growth of reproductive organs, social relations that developed in adolescence is marked also by the desire to establish a special relationship with other species and if not guided action can lead to deviant behavior in social and sexual behavior. In adolescence is also marked by a desire to experiment and test the reliability of the existing norms, if not guided, might have developed into a conflict of values in themselves and with their environment.

4. Problems associated with the development of personality, and emotional.
Adolescence is also the time to discover the identity of self (self identity). Search for the identity of any business, mostly done by showing the behavior of trial and error, imitation behavior or identification. When the teenager failed to find his identity, he will experience an identity crisis or identity confusion, so perhaps it will form a personality system that not describe the actual state of self. The reactions and emotional expression that is still unstable and not yet under control in adolescence can have an impact on our personal and social. He became often feel depressed and moping or she actually becomes the person to behave aggressively. Quarrels and fights often occur because of emotional instability.

Other than those described above, of course, still many other problems of adolescence. The emergence of adolescent problems are influenced by various factors, both internal and external. For teenagers to avoid the various difficulties and problems would need the wisdom of all parties. Efforts to facilitate the development of adolescents will be very important. In this case, the role of parents, schools participating in the development of adolescent growth

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0 Musical Influence On Children

Research shows that music, especially classical music influence the development of IQ (Intelegent Quotien) and EQ (Emotional Quotien). A child who from childhood accustomed to listening to music will be more developed emotional intelligence and intelegensinya compared with children who rarely listen to music. The meaning of the music here is music that has a regular rhythm and the tones are regular, not oblique tones. The level of discipline of children who often listen to music is also better than children who rarely listen to music.

Grace Sudargo, a musician and educator said the basics of classical music in general comes from the rhythm of the human pulse so that it plays a major role in brain development, the formation of soul, character, and even human flesh.

Research shows, classical music compositions containing tone fluctuates between high and low pitch tone will stimulate quadrant C in the brain. Until the age of 4 years, quadrant B and C in the brains of children will grow up to 80% with the music.

Music greatly affects human life. Music has 3 important parts of beat, rhythm, and harmony, says Ev. Andrew Christanday in a lecture musical. Beat affects the body, affecting the rhythm of the soul, while affecting the spirit of harmony. The most obvious example that beat really affect the body is in a rock concert. Certainly there are no spectators or players in a rock concert that his body not moving. Everything rocked with a vengeance, and even tends to be uncontrollable. We still remember with a head banger, a twisting movement of the head to the rhythm of the loud rock music. And it followed her body as if without feeling tired. If our hearts are hard, try to listen to beautiful music, which has a rhythm (rhythm) is regular. The feeling we will be more comfortable and easy. Even outside the country, the hospitals make itself more beautiful songs to help cure his patients. That is a proof, that greatly affect the rhythm of the human soul. While greatly affect the spirit of harmony. If we watch a horror movie, always sounding harmony (melody), heart-wrenching, chilling which we stand. In religious rituals are also widely used harmony that brings the spirit of man into nature worship. In meditation, people hear the harmony of the sounds of nature around him. Music is good for human life is a balance between the beat of music, rhythm, and harmony, says Ev. Andrew Christanday.

A biophysicist has conducted an experiment on the influence of music for the living. Two plants of the same type and age are placed in different places. One was placed close to the speaker (the speaker) that presents the songs slow rock and heavy rock, while other plants are placed close to the speakers that broadcast the songs are beautiful and rhythmically regular. In a few days there very striking differences. Plants near the speakers rock songs became withered and died, while plants near the speakers beautiful songs grow fresh and blooming. A proof that music really affect the lives of living beings.

The universe is created by nature a very beautiful music. Thundering waves of the sea, the roar of the wind in the mountains, and rain is very beautiful nature music. And has been proven, how music influences of nature to human life.

Wulaningrum Wibisono, S. Psi, said today If you feel so heavy, you should check again your life today. Do-do you not listen to music and singing.

SOURCE: http://www.iqeq.web.id/anak/anak02.shtml

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0 Juvenile Delinquency

Juvenile delinquency commonly referred to as Juvenile juvenilis comes from the Latin, which means the children, young people, the characteristic features of one's youth, his characteristic in adolescence, while delinquent derived from the Latin "delinquere" which means to neglect, ignore , which then expanded it mean to be wicked, naughty, anti-social, criminal, lice and so forth.

Juvenile delinquency or juvenile delinquency is a bad behavior or delinquency of young people, a symptom of illness (pathological) socially in children and adolescents are caused by a form of social neglect, so they developed a form of deviant behavior. The term juvenile delinquency refers to a wide range, from behavior that is unacceptable social community.

Can I conclude here that the tendency of juvenile delinquency is the tendency of adolescents to perform actions that violate the rules can lead to losses and good about themselves kerosakan mahupun other people who do adolescents under the age of 17 years.

While the factors that influence the tendency of juvenile delinquency are as described below.

Identiti
Age of adolescents, there was a time at the stage where the teenagers are having problems identiti. Biological and social changes allow the two forms of integration in keperibadian adolescents: one, the formation of a sense of consistency in his life and two, the achievement of identiti role, less is more with how to incorporate motivation, values, abilities and style of teens owned by the role required of adolescents.
In search identiti, teenagers sometimes make the wrong choice.

Guard yourself
Adolescent behavior that never broke chest akhbar

Juvenile delinquency can also be described as the failure to develop enough self escort in terms of their behavior. Some adolescents fail to develop essential self escort who already owned by someone else during the process of growth. Most teens have been studying the distinction between acceptable behavior and behavior that is unacceptable, but young people who do not recognize this mischief. They may fail membezakan behavior is acceptable and unacceptable, or maybe they actually already know the distinction between the two but failed to develop adequate self escort in using that distinction to guide their behavior.

Jantina
Adolescent boys do more antisocial behavior than women. In general, the number of teenage boys who commit crimes in a gang is estimated to double 50-fold than adolescent girls.

Hope to education and values in schools
Teenagers who become perpetrators of delinquency often have low expectations of education in schools. They feel that free schools are not so useful to life, so usually their values against the school tends to be low. They have no motivation for school. They will selalunya ponteng school.

The process of family
Happy family

Family factors affect the incidence of juvenile delinquency. Lack of family support such as a lack of attention to aktiviti child's parents, lack of effective application of discipline, lack of parental affection can become hyper incidence of juvenile delinquency. Inadequate parental supervision of adolescents and the application of discipline is ineffective and does not fit is an important factor in determining family emergence of juvenile delinquency. Disputes within the family or the stress experienced by families is also associated with delinquency. Genetic factors are also included as a booster onset juvenile delinquency, although peratusnya not so great.

Effect of peer movement
Having peers who do increase the risk of juvenile delinquency to be naughty. According to a study of 500 principals and 500 juvenile delinquency are not doing something naughty, was found peratusan higher delinquency is to teens who have frequent relations with peers who do mischief.

Persekitaran qualities residence
Community also can play a role in eliciting behavioral issues. Communities with high crime paras allows teens observe the various models that do aktiviti criminals and get results or awards for their criminal aktiviti. Such a society is often marked by poverty, unemployment, and feeling excluded from the class of simple classes. Qualities of education in schools, shopping at the school, and aktiviti outside the convoy were other factors in society that is also associated with juvenile delinquency.

Based on the above opinion can be concluded that unlicensed factor that causes most juvenile delinquency trend is the emergence of family factors that lack of harmony and movement, especially the influence of peer factors that are less good, kerana at this time adolescents begin to move from their homes and seek peer movement, so that the interests, values , and invested by the group norms that determine the behavior of teenagers more than the norm, values that exist within families and communities.

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0 Keeping Love Alive

Love, who would not know a feeling this one, everyone must have felt and want a love forever. However, to maintain a love is not easy, understanding and honesty is one of the cornerstone for maintaining a love for bersemayan in the heart forever.

Get to the principal discussion, that is about keeping love alive. Here are some tips for keeping love alive:

1. Praise
give a compliment to the pair, although looks trivial but a compliment to have considerable influence and is easy to give. So take a look at something that makes your spouse and others unique and custom build praise Them for something special there.

2. Every effort is painful is similar to the oyster or the pearl-making process, and there are a precious jewel - a personal benefit - in every case, every person. Do not stop to fight for love despite any difficult.

3. Do not live all alone.
Welcome the new insights from a new perspective and others who come from family, friends, book a good marriage or of a qualified marriage counselor.

4. In relation to each other is satisfactory, both parties need to express it, and they have the flexibility to give and take.

5. Honorary like love bersarungkan hand, the definition of the verb is doing something inappropriate for someone who is precious to us.

6. All the trials that we experience, big or small can be better to bring us to the two best things in life: love for life and love for fellow

7. Wholeness or unity does not mean that one party dominates the other or that a stronger control of the weaker.

8. Anger is our choice. We can choose to see it as a potential force to damage and take steps to reduce it within us. On the other hand, anger and love iceberg could sink us.

9. A better understanding of the motivations and actions that grow out of the basic personality of ourselves can help us achieve personal satisfaction and marital satisfaction.

10. Sharing feelings of deep connection with every other person is an emotional connection, and it is vital for sexual satisfaction.

11. When we reach out to others, our need for fulfillment and love will be found.

12. Give seven or more praise for any advice when we find fault with other parties.

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0 5 Tips to prevent Heart

Having a partner is everyone's dream because it can make us happier. Yet this world was created in pairs, there is love there must be sorrow, there must exist also black and white, as well as your love life is happy there must be sad.

Establish a relationship whose name mungin feel hurt. Hurt really painful and difficult to treat. But this time I will share how to not feel hurt. The couple could have become a handsome prince who is very fascinating. But at other times, they can turn into someone who is disappointing and makes the heart sick. Many things can be done to overcome resentment, and hurt like silence, distancing themselves from the association, or eating uncontrollably.

However, there are several things you can do to relieve pain without the need to punish yourself or regret it later in life. Here are suggestions from Sheknows.

1. Say: You are a very interesting
Make sure that you are a woman attractive and charming. And, lover you are very lucky to have you. If a man treats you do not deserve so that relationships become 'healthy', you have no choice left.

2. Eating chocolate
The experts reveal the content of chocolate can give a sense of happiness in an instant. Eating delicious chocolate makes you feel more relieved.

3. Write a diary
When you feel hurt or disappointed by the act of a partner, write down all the feelings that you experience in a diary. After writing all of them, surely you will feel better and ready to begin a new life. Do not worry because there are many men waiting for you out there.

4. Expenditure
For women, shopping can provide comfort and feeling happy. Forget the pain and Shop. A pair of shoes or clothes pretty funny can change the appearance and make you look fabulous and beautiful when wearing it.

5. Doing good
Helping others will give incredible feeling in a short time. Helping others such as social activities not only makes you look at things positively, but the results will come back to you. In time, you will reap the fruit of goodness that you sow.

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2 Alexa Rank Rising

This article is an additional article to a not yet know how to increase alexa rank with the powerful, the Titans are one of the important calculation for the pembisnis online, at the tender adsense, etc. but for the blog is not for bisnispun Alexa rank can be used as a reference to see how the quality of these blogs .

Alexa is a site that provides rankings that have been recognized as a consideration in the cyber world, whether for a paid review or other. And assessment is through the number of visitors and popularity. Why do I mention two items between visitors and its popularity? Because a lot of reality to say more than 100 visitors per day even better than his Alexa rank is 1000 per day. Some say also depends on the number of IP (Internet Protocol) of different visitors, hosting and so forth. Therefore many people are looking for ways to increase alexa rank trick along with page rank. Especially for bloggers who like to play a paid review or Selling links. Where pagerank and alexa rank is the main calculations.

There are various ways to increase your alexa rank. As in the previous article. Among them:

1. Put Widget Alexa And Alexa Tool Bar can increase the alexa rank. Already in the proof on my blog. Formerly 15juta now become 1jutaan. But this effect on your pagerank. (Because you are not directly provide a backlink to alexa http://alexa.com/site/site_stats/signup). alexa tool bar http://alexa.com/site/download.
2. The location of your hosting an influence on your site. This according to my discussions and my blogging teacher, with the basic theory if your hosting is located in the U.S., the visitor to access your site more quickly. Logically, Alexa is from where? Overseas right? Well if you use their hosting IIX long time to open your site, so it will help slow the rise in rank alexa rank our blog.
3. Update your blog regularly. This seems to be influential, because usually page rank and alexa rank like a site that is always up to date. Sites that follow the keywords also include categories of sites that up to date, but try to keep your blog from porn keywords, such as videos and photos girls nude junior high, high school, and lovely cottage student.
4. Make review about alexa. Currently in the research, before I wrote this review.
5. Create a sub domain to boost your traffic. Example: If kuliahpsikologi.dekrizky.com and iklangratis.dekrizky.com visitornya 50 per day and blog dekrizky.com visitornya 50 per day, could be a total of 100 day visitors. It may be true, because the logic is like that.
6. Optimize SEO on your blog. SEO is where - where necessary, and can be a weapon to boost alexa rank. The logic is like this, good SEO, automatic increase visitors from search engines. Could affect the alexa and pagerank too lho. Please read the SEO tricks blogspot for more details about SEO.
7. Increase Alexa backlinks. Alexa backlink will be obtained if you frequently commented on the blog - another blog alias blogwalking. The fact is I see when I check my backlinks Alexa anyone, it turns out most of my comments when blogwalking.

Well, that was what I meant, there is an additional bit of my first article. Namely Optimization SEO (Search Engine Optimization), Creating a Sub Domain, and Host Location. Of things - things that I mentioned and I read from my friend's blog was, indeed all logical and can be practiced. But whatever it is, we can only guess, Alexa Rank and PageRank is still a mystery.

Okay. Alexa rank so many tricks I can give. Hopefully can help boost ranking blogs of friends to practice this tricks.

Hopefully helpful...

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135 Important, 7 Signs of HIV Affected People

HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) is the most feared disease because the disease is no vaccine or medicine that can cure the disease. But we should be alert and recognize the symptoms as early as possible for HIV to take precautions early.

This deadly virus will attack the immune system that makes the body lose the ability to fight disease, making the body more susceptible to various diseases.

If these symptoms are not treated immediately, it can cause AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome) which is a deadly disease. AIDS arise as a result of breeding the HIV virus in the human body.

The symptoms that arise from HIV can affect a person gradually. Once the virus enters the body, then the virus will develop rapidly.

This virus will attack the CD4 lymphocytes (T cells) and destroys white blood cells that affects the immune system. Each stage of infection will show different symptoms.

The initial stage of infection with this virus usually show no signs or symptoms, new symptoms will appear after two to four weeks after infection. A person may complain of severe headache accompanied by fever and persistent.

As quoted Menshealth.about.com, Thursday (6/10/2010) when a person is infected, the initial symptoms sometimes appear similar to the flu or viral infection medium.

Symptoms and early signs of HIV, including fever, headache, fatigue, nausea, diarrhea and swollen lymph nodes in the neck, armpit or groin.

These symptoms are similar to other viral infections. Therefore, many HIV-infected people do not realize that he had been infected for years to reach an advanced stage.

Center for disease control (Centers for Disease Control / CDC) revealed there are several symptoms that indicate an advanced stage of HIV are:
1. Lose weight fast without any reason
2. Hacking cough
3. Recurring fever or sweating at night
4. Fatigue
5. Diarrhea is more than a week
6. Memory loss
7. Depression and other nervous disorders.

One way to detect it is by measuring the number of white blood cells, because usually a person with HIV will have a number of small white blood cells.

HIV is not an easy disease to be diagnosed, there are two things to note is that there are recognizable symptoms and examination by a doctor.

HIV is caused mostly by the behavior of mutually exchange sex partners without using condoms or those who used drugs since the turn of a syringe.

Say No to Drugs and Promiscuity...!

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